eHarmony Part 4; The Essay Questions.

Finally, eHarmony allows you to send 3 essay questions to your perspective match.  You can choose three canned questions or you can make up three questions of your own.  I personally choose to use my own three questions as they deal with topics that are the most important to me.

The first question that I ask is about their religious beliefs.  Church and religion are a big part of my life.  And while everyone claims to be a “Christian”  the term “Christian” functions that same as “none of the above.”  If you are not a Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim or Jew, you must be a Christian.  And, I have found that some of these matches that claim to be Christian have never attended a church in their life.  So, just to be on the safe side, I ask them to tell me about their faith.

The next question that I ask has to do with sex and intimacy.  I know that this may seem a little bold but here is the deal:  I am still sexually active and I expect my wife to also be sexually active.  And while this may seem to be obvious, some women are not interested in sex any more. So, just to be sure that we are both on the same page regarding sex, I will ask.

Finally, I ask about what they expect from the relationship. Some women are only interested in a traveling companion.  Some women are only interested in sex and nothing more.  While others are only interested in a domestic servant.  So, I need to ask.  That way, it reduces the potential for disappointment.

Of all of the parts of eHarmony, the Myer Briggs personality profile and the essay questions are the most pertinent.

 

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