Why get married again?  This is a question that many older women must ask them selves.

When a woman is young, she is looking for a husband to father her children and provide support for her and them.  In short, a husband/father.

But, as a woman gets older, things change.  She no longer needs a man to give her children.  And, she could very well be financially independent.  So, if there is no need for children and she is financially independence, she no longer needs the committed relationship of a marriage.

After all, marriage means that she has to live with this guy 24X7.  She looses her independence and has to learn his little quirks.  So, she has to work at the relationship at a time when she could just say NO!

In fact, getting married could very well be emotionally and financially detrimental for her.  She stands to loose her independence both financial and lifestyle.  Plus, she will have to go through marital stress and the ultimate pain of a divorce.

So, why would any middle aged woman want to get married again?  That is a question that every middle aged man must ask himself.  And, if you don’t have something major to offer to the relationship, chances are you won’t find anyone to marry.