How Are Your Finances?

One of the major issues that needs to be reviewed is personal finances.  It can be a major shock to discover that your new bride is thousands of dollars in debt.  But, it can also be tricky to determine their debt load.

Now, if you ask them outright, they will tell you that their finances are just fine.  No one is going to admit that their finances are out of control.  So, the best that you can do is to listen to what they say and how they react. 

For instance, one woman told me that she liked using a certain credit card because it gave her cash back.  And this is fine.  But, when she then stated that at the end of the month she rolls the balance over on to another card, this should be a warning that things are not good. 

I often will make the statement that I am debt free.  If they respond that they are also debt free, this might be a good sign.  But, if they say that I am luck, or if they do not comment at all, this may be an indications of debt.  So, beware.

Unfortuantely, you won’t really know about their financial stability until after you are married.  Caveat Emptor.

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