Making plans is something that happens in all relationships.  After all, you can’t just show up at the door unannounced and expect to go out for the evening.  You have to  make plans even if it is only a few hours in advance.  But, the question becomes just how far in advance do you dare to plan?

One woman, that I was dating, wanted me to go with her to a Christmas concert at her sons college in another state.  Since the concerts was only six weeks away, I rearranged my own schedule so that I would be free that weekend.  Well, I never saw the concert or that woman again.

Now, while  I understand that relationships can change very quickly, I didn’t realize that they could literally change over night.  Caveat emptor.