Sooner or later, you are going to run into the “love me, love my….(you fill in the blank) scenario. It may be a dog, a cat, a horse, a car or a ….. Regardless of what it is, you will be expected to embrace it. And, if you don’t, the relationship is doomed.
So, if there is a “love me, love my…” that you absolutely can’t stand, then you need to think about moving on.