The other weekend, I took a  woman out on a date.  During that date, she told me that I was the first person that she has dated in over 16 years.   Now, while I was flattered to be the first,  I was also concerned that she was just getting started on finding a new relationship.  Fortunately, we didn’t click so I didn’t have to worry about getting involved with someone who may later change her mind about what she wants in a relationship.