Last year, at this time, I was dating a woman who was too overloaded with life.  So, she asked for a year moratorium on the relationship just to see where we stand.  Well, that year has ended and now it is time to see where we are in the relationship.  So, today I sent the “checking in” letter.  If nothing else, I at least need closure on this relationship.  And my bike back as I left it at her house.