It was only our third date when she announced that she had my “backside”.  By that, she meant that she would be there for me no matter what.

Now, since we were just getting to know each other, I was surprised to hear such a comment.  But, I was still hurting from the loss of my wife and really needed to hear something like that.  She knew that and took advantage of me.

Then, 8 weeks later, she announced that we no longer had future together.  Really?  What happened to my backside?

She was emotionally unstable; a flake!!  The first of many.