I once dated a woman who pledged her undying love to me but was too busy to have an active relationship with me. Instead, she wanted to take a year off until she could get her life together.
So, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. As I suspected, she was a flake and still did not have her life together. Emotionally unstable!!
Don’t wait on these people, get on with your own life. They are flakes!!