My first husband was gay!  That is a response that I have heard from several woman.

Apparently, they couldn’t tell the difference when they were dating.  But, then, 15 years later, they can’t understand what happened.

Hello!!!  Your first husband was gay but it took you 15 years to figure it out?  So, what was your first clue????  He liked what???

You are an emotionally unstable flake!!