Recently, I discovered that a woman, on one of my dating websites, goes to my church.  So, it seemed like a natural to ask her out.  But, every time that I asked, she had a million excuses to decline.  I soon got the idea that she really wasn’t interested in dating me.

When I told a friend of mine from church about the dilemma, he told me not to take it personally.

Not to take it personally??!!  How else should I take it?  She is not going out with me because of something personal about me.

Well, I am not surprised.  I met her on Christian Mingle and Christian Mingle is home to the curious and not the serious.