When I date some one that I really like, I want to make sure that they know that I like them.  So, I will make a point in calling them pretty much daily.  However, I realize that daily can be too much for some women, particularly if they have been single for too long.  In fact, too much attention can be suffocating.

So, to avoid too much attention, I ask if it is OK for me to call them on any given day.  With this approach, I can give them attention without suffocating.