Whenever you meet a woman for the first time, you will be classified as either a friend or a potential lover.  And, even though this classification may take a while to determine, it will take place none the less.

If you get classified as a friend, you will remain a friend and will never become a lover.

But, if you get classified as a potential lover, you will retain that status until you do become a lover.  Once you become a lover, the relationship will either go forward until it reaches fulfillment or until it burns out. And, once it burns out, it is over.

Remember, affairs never happen between a woman and her male friends.  Affairs only happen between a woman and her potential lovers.  So, for your own well being, it is vital to determine how the woman has classified you as soon as possible.  If it is a friend, then you have a safe relationship.  If a lover, well, be careful or you could end up with a situation that you hadn’t expected.