When I first started dating again, I noticed that I was really attracted to some women but not to others.  And while they were equal in looks and personality, there was something about them that was different.

According to the book entitled “Why We Love” that difference is chemistry.  Or more to the point, I was attracted to the women that I had chemistry with and not to the others.

Chemistry is very real and is a part of the natural selection process.  Mother Nature has programmed us to seek out a mate who is genetically compatible.  And, through our body chemistry and that of potential mates, we are able to determine who is and who isn’t a potential mate.

And, just because a person is married, this does not relegate them from the attention of other compatible mates.  And if the chemical link is strong enough, they could become clandestine lovers.

Chemistry is very real so beware.