Well, after a few months of doing the online dating thing, I managed to find a woman who was interested in meeting me.  Great!  So, we arranged to meet at a restaurant.

When she arrived, I noticed that she seemed a little under-dressed. Well OK, frumpy.  But, I assumed that she was being modest.  Nothing wrong with that.

Since there was a wait at the restaurant, they seated us in the bar until a table became available.  No problem.  We each ordered a drink and began to chat.  It was after she got started on her second drink that she told me that she left her husband after 25 years for another woman.  And, that after 5 years, she realized that she had made a mistake and really wanted a heterosexual relationship.  Well, OK I guess.

So, now I am spending the rest of the evening wondering if she has really made the transition back or if she is only pretending in order to please her family and friends.

I never went out with her again.  She dumped me.  I guess I asked too many personal questions like”could you sleep with me?’

First date bummers.  Next time I will have to ask up front.