The natural human tendency is to ask “what do I get out of the relationship?  Can she cook?  Does she have a good job?”  Etc.

But more to the point, you need to ask what you bring to the relationship.  Can you cook?  Do you have a good job?  Are you handy?

Besides being a good companion, you need to bring something to the relationship.  You need to fill a void that she has.  If you can’t, then you are not needed.

FWIW