So, if you have found that special someone and the two of you seem to hit it off, the next step is marriage.  Or maybe not.  Or as one woman put it, “why should I give someone half of what I have earned?”  Why indeed!

This is a difficult question.  And, the answer is not the same for each relationship.

In some relationships, both couples are looking for marriage.  And this works.  In other relationships, both couple are looking to remain independent.  And that too works.

The problem arises when one member of the couple wants to marry but the other doesn’t. This is a loose loose situation since neither member of the relationship will be satisfied.

So, do you cut your losses and move on or do you try to work it out?  That is the question.