The other day, I ran across a woman with a defeatist attitude.  She basically posted that no one would like her so don’t bother writing.  Since I figured that she knew herself better than I did, I took her for her word.

You are what you eat.  And that holds true with dating.  And, while there is nothing wrong with eating healthy, you may be judged by what you eat.

If she orders the salmon on wild rice with fruit and you order the cheeseburger with fries, she may look at your meal and feel righteous.  After all, she was  thinking healthy when she chose her meal and you were thinking tasty.

Deep down inside, she is hoping that you will feel guilty about your choice.  But, in reality, your are sucking down that cheese burger and fry’s and loving it.

I know a single woman who wanted a man who made at least $80,000 a years, drove an Audi or better, liked to run and bike and was under age 60.

After looking for several years, she has now decided that she just want someone nice.  Well OK!!

Were they loved by their dad?  That is an important question when you date women.

Too often, dads don’t know how to relate to their children, and so they don’t.  The result is that women grow up not knowing what it means to be loved.  And, this carries forward into their relationships with other men.

So, if your girl seems a little cold, it may be because her dad was cold.  It will be your job to teach her what it means to love.

Do we work well together?  That is a question that I had not thought about.  But, for some women, that answer is vital to their new relationship.

It seems that in their previous relationships, they and their partner had not worked well together.  And, because of this, they were not perceived as a team.  Rather, they were seen as two people with separate agendas, doing their own thing.  And, this does not make for a healthy relationship.

So, I now understand the need for knowing if we work well together.

Does she have a tan so dark that would make a Thanksgiving turkey envious?  Well, besides having skin that looks like shoe leather, she must spend all of her free time in the sun.  So, unless you like to do the same, give this one a pass.

Once again, I had almost 3,000 spams in 24 hours.  And again, since I don’t have time to review each and every spam as to whether they were flagged in error, I have delete that whole lot and more on.  Besides, when I get that many spams in one day, I have to wonder if something illegal is going on.

Well, it is another “spam attack” day.  Spam are posts sent to my blog for the sole purpose of advertizing a product or service.  In short, spam is the junk mail of the internet age.

So, when I get 4000 posts in a day, with most of them being spam, all I can do is delete the whole lot as there is not enough time to review each one individually.

It is ironic because if the spammers had just submitted a couple of posts, I would probably have allowed them.  But, when the same person sends me the same spam several hundred times, I have no choice but to delete them.

Why are they divorced?  The reason for a divorce will give you an insight into the psyche of an individual.  Reasons such as an unfaithful spouse are sound.  But reasons, such as, “we were just tired of each other” are not.

So, think about why the marriage failed and ask your self if it could happen to you too.

Sooner or later, you are going to run into the “love me, love my….(you fill in the blank) scenario.  It may be a dog, a cat, a horse, a car or a …..  Regardless of what it is, you will be expected to embrace it.  And, if you don’t, the relationship is doomed.

So, if there is a “love me, love my…” that you absolutely can’t stand, then you need to think about moving on.